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Your First Offer Deserves More Respect

Jeff Mejia · September 28, 2026

Most sellers treat the first offer like an opening bid. It's something to push back on hard, because surely a better one is coming. I get it. You just listed, the photos look great, and saying yes feels too early.

I've watched this play out enough times to have an opinion on it. The first week is the only time your home is new to every buyer who's been waiting for something like it. That's the most attention it will ever get. The buyers who show up first have been looking for months. They know the neighborhood well, and they already have a good idea what your house is worth. Their offer is the most informed one you'll see.

Harveston in Temecula is a good example. A lot of homes there share floor plans with a house two streets over, so buyers walk in already knowing what the same layout sold for last spring. You can't out-price a comparison that direct. List $30,000 over the one that just closed and nobody argues with you. They just don't show up.

That's where pricing and negotiating meet. A home priced right draws a real offer in the first ten days. A home priced "to leave room" sits, and after about three weeks the conversation flips. Buyers start asking what's wrong with it. Now you're negotiating from behind, and the cuts you make later add up to more than the room you tried to leave.

Here's the part some sellers don't like hearing: countering a strong first offer by a big number is one of the most expensive habits I see. Counter, sure. Ask for a better closing date or a shorter repair list. Just don't treat a serious buyer like a lowballer because their offer came in fast.

Prep matters too, just not the way people think. You don't need a remodel. You need to fix what the buyer's inspector will flag anyway before you list. A water heater that's weeping at the base. The garage door that sticks halfway. Those small things turn into credits during escrow, and credits are where a lot of sellers quietly lose money.

The best part about living out here is that there's always something to do on a weekend, whether that's a car show or a night market. I'd rather my sellers spend those weekends there than hosting a fourth open house for a home that should have sold in week one.

So when that first offer lands, read it slowly before you react. Who wrote it, and what do they already know?